Ok,
first of all, I'm not a believer of romantic stories and the idea of falling in
love and living happily ever after!
What
I do believe in is that there is that one person out there who can enrich your
life in a way no one else can. Someone who can love you and be your friend at
the same time. He or she isn't necessarily your life partner or life mate. He
can just be someone you randomly bumped into and hit it off with.
For
me the idea of a perfect mate is someone who can make you laugh in the toughest
of times, someone for whom you are not a choice, but a priority.
If
being with someone is what makes you happy, if you think that it’s easy for you
to talk to him or her, share stuff without the fear of what will he or she
think. If you can kiss someone and feel good about it, yet feel equally happy
about just being out and having a cup of coffee with them, that someone is
perfect for you.
This
is the person you can do things you would otherwise never do, the someone who
can be far far away, but can still care for you.
He
can cheer you when you are feeling sorrowful or depressed. He can challenge you
when you allow yourself to get beyond your reasonable boundaries. He can
motivate you when you’re ready to give in, and he can provide for you when life
falls apart. He will be there when all is well, and you want someone with whom
to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments. You often just want them around
to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy something, be it a movie,
a debate or just pulling someone's leg.
Like
a lot of others, your destiny plan may be to only be friends, one that could
prove very challenging, but if you can swallow the reality, being great friends
can be almost as fulfilling.
There is nothing wrong about falling in love with that person, I guess it just makes things more beautiful. What that love means to you and how much you value it, is the real catch!
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